In this program, the author Matthew Coast has based his focus on the art of “irresistible text messages”. These messages are just but a tip on the iceberg on how a woman can keep a man interested in her for long. These kind of texts are the texts that instinctively attracts men and are also the kind that can turn your crush to your admirer and into your boyfriend. What most women do not know is that they have the power to keep a man interested by most always lose themselves in believing that giving in too fast is the purest form of love. The program focuses on the science of romance, and through this, the program has sections where specific hormones that are believed to play a role in building attraction and triggering a guy’s emotional response are discussed in depth.
In addition to that, the program focuses on texts that get a chemical reaction in five areas which are testosterone, dopamine, androgen, endorphins and oxytocin. In this guide, these hormones will be referred to as “The Love Hormones”. This formula is designed to make men more responsive and romantic. This means that if you use the guideline well, you will no longer have to force conversations with the man you love, rather, everything will be flowing out naturally and he will have the urge to respond to your messages. Let’s look into the “love hormones” deeper.
1. Testosterone
This is the hormone that will make a man want to pursue you more. Many people know testosterone as a sex hormone that contributes to a man’s ego as well as his physiological response and overall health. In addition to that, it is also the hormone that regulates sex drive and the production of sperms. Most of the time, men with low seed drive, premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation and even depression are usually advised to boost their testosterone levels through various ways so that they may be able to feel masculine again. Apart from being responsible for the overall male health, this hormone is also associated with the increased risk of “dangerous behaviour” and aggressiveness in men.
This is the main reason why sometimes you may realize that a man is pursuing a woman more than usual and a lot harder than they would normally do. This is the hormone that makes a man feel more of masculine and boosts his courage and confidence to a point where he can approach any woman he is interested in. studies have also shown that men tend to produce more testosterone when women show admiration and appreciate their masculine qualities. This is why as a woman, it is very important that you make a man feel more masculine and in control. Men love women who respect them and make them feel more appreciated. This is the main reason why women should strive to keep challenging a man that she is interested in so that the man can get the testosterone rush that he craves.
One of the reasons why you may have felt like the fire you once had with a man is no longer there is because the man’s testosterone has changed his mind in such a way that he is feeling like he is not getting the reaction that keeps him coming back. It is not too late to get things on the right track. If you have been faced with this condition, then you should strive to keep the man challenged. I know you are probably asking yourself how you can do this without losing your dream guy. Well, the answer is pretty simple. Keep pushing him away every now and then, and by this, I mean that ensure that he does not reach the next “step” easily. Avoid being very available anytime a man wants to meet you because the truth is that men value women they put energy and effort into, and through this, he will learn to love and respect you even more.
One of the ways that you can use to keep him interested is by giving him new challenges. For instance, when talking to him, you can add a little mystery to the conversation. Through this way, he will not stop thinking about you. You can say like “I had the craziest dream about you”. When he reads this, he will want to know more about the dream and would want to explore his fantasies with you.
Another way that you can also keep him interested is to challenge him that you value your time, but he is still your priority. You can come up with something like “Hey, I was busy doing something, but your text got me laughing so hard”. He will definitely realize that despite the fact that you were busy, you still found time to check his text and this is the one way of boosting his testosterone. Also, avoid expressing too much too soon. Throw him a challenge by softly teasing him to get more of his attention.
2. Dopamine
This is a hormone that is involved in both the brain and body function. Moreover, this hormone is released by the neurons so that it can send signals to the other nerve cells. Furthermore, a non-scientific understanding is based on the fact that dopamine is the chemical that produces pleasure. When a man gets a dopamine signal, it is already anticipated that pleasure is the outcome. This is what pushes people to either take action to follow their dopamine rush or to take a step back when they perceive that danger is involved. Studies have tried to explain the relationship that exists between dopamine and love and the findings have been that patterns or romance start with lust.
This happens in that when two people are texting, the man develops the urge to be romantic and brave because he wants to show the woman his masculine qualities, whereas the woman wants to feel desired, loved and valued. Women can also use this love hormone to their advantage by making everything about the man and less about themselves. To effectively do this, help the man realize what he really wants and feed him with more ideas on the things that he might really like. This gives them the impression that you care more about them, their feelings and the things that they value, and when a man feels dopamine high in dating, they become more driven to pursue you so that they can turn their fantasy into reality. This makes them value the new relationship more. This is why you should invest in triggering dopamine in texting. This not only triggers lust and attraction but also makes him want to achieve his end goal of being with you.
Research has shown that when you trigger dopamine when texting with a man, you are making him addicted to pursuing and connecting with you. He will automatically start thinking deeper and in more details about the two of you being together in the future, and through this, he will make your relationship a priority in his life. This is a trick that any woman can use, including people who are in long-distance relationships because when you trigger his dopamine, he will keep thinking about your relationship, and how your love story will end. This makes him even more committed to you.
For instance, if you want to keep the dopamine flowing through the texts, then you can spice up things a little bit. If you are in a long-distance relationship, make him want to meet you soon. You can do this by naming some specific things that you would want to do together when you meet in person. For example, you can name some activities that you would want to do together, restaurants you would want to visit together, lessons to take, and even some sexy vacation ideas. This helps him to visualize happiness with you and helps him know what happiness truly means.
Women can make men addicted to them too, and to include that through triggering dopamine in texting, you can say something like “I wish you were here to watch this romantic film”. This is a good way to keep the conversation flowing and to feed his fantasies with unpredictable flirting statements. Apart from that, you can also feed his fantasies by giving his some visual or audio cues, so that he can look forward to the day that you will meet. You can say “I’m just from the shower and I want to make some carrot soup”. This is a perfect statement to break his concentration. He will be interested to know more about the details. Therefore, you have all the power to make a man stop ignoring or ghosting you after having a great conversation. Tickle his ego with a dopamine text and watch how crazy he will be about you.
3. Androgen
This is the third love hormone that we are discussing in this guide. Ever heard someone talk about sex drive and male hormones? They are basically talking about androgen. Androgen is a sex hormone that helps with the development of sexual functions and sexual characteristics in men. A man who is experiencing a decrease in androgen levels usually tends to suffer from reduced libido, weaker erections and orgasms, fatigue and depression among others. You may have probably heard about male menopause. The truth is that is a myth. Older men never experience a significant drop in androgen hormones by default. Only older men in poor health experience this drop.
Sexual response and hormonal production are determined by a man’s attitude and romantic experiences. One of the main reasons why a man may watch porn is so that he can experience intense sexual pleasure of their dominant personalities. The same applies to texting and dating. If a man shows any kind of unhappiness during texting, it is possible that there is a lack of social androgen. Most of the time, men flirt with women so that they can feel all sexy, confident, smart, masculine, dominant and above all-powerful. These are the qualities that make him attractive to a woman. However, if you realize that you are talking to a man but he is not feeling this way then he is definitely lacking androgen arousal and maybe he is just not as romantic as you thought.
All a man wants is to feel that his partner knows how to reassure him of his attractive qualities on a regular basis. Some of the ways that a woman can use to make a man feel masculine are by giving him compliments. For instance, you can say something like “you are the coolest guy that I know”. This statement not only makes him feel masculine but also makes him improve on his behaviour because he wants to keep up with the good impression that you already have about him. Also, remember that a man wants to feel like he is in authority, and for this reason, you can text him something that makes him feel that way. If you say “Hey. My friend was thinking about starting a business, and I know you are the best person to ask for advice, and I have a question for you…”. This statement alone makes the man feel like you desire him more and that you have high regards for him.
One mistake that most women make is that they try to change a man to become someone that he is not. This is something that men find irritating and can be a turn off for them. Therefore, instead of being his mom, be his amazing girlfriend and watch how he is going to treasure you every single day.
4. Endorphins
These are chemicals that are made by the nervous system to specifically deal with stress. Endorphins are also known as the “feel-good” natural drugs of the human body that are responsible for reducing pain and also increasing one’s happiness and mood. This love hormone is released to the body naturally after a person has had a pleasurable experience. When you are having sex, especially the intense and athletic kind, then the endorphins are definitely rushing everywhere. This is the main reason as to why many people tend to develop feelings for each other after getting intimate. Some of the ways that can keep a man interested and increase his endorphin level include making him feel appreciated, wanted, manly, secure and attractive.
If you feel like you cannot manage to make his endorphins high physically, then maybe you can try an emotional approach and see how it goes. For instance, you can get him to open up about his personal life, talk about some of the stressful experiences he had in the past with a positive attitude, and convince him to open up to you and to be vulnerable with you. Through this way, he will learn how to cherish you more and give you all of his attention.
5. Oxytocin
Among all the other love hormones, oxytocin has a reputation as the love hormone. It is also sometimes referred to as the orgasmic hormone. However, according to science, it is the bonding hormone. This means that if you know how to put this hormone to use well, you will get your man to bond with you well and give you all his time and attention. The levels of this hormone tend to shoot up after having sex when someone is feeling loved and even after more platonic bonding moments. You may probably be wondering what this hormone does in a relationship and how to trigger it in a man. Most women do not understand how bonding is a process and how it can take longer for a man to feel free with them. For instance, if you want to bond effortlessly with a man you are interested in, you can try being there for him, and not forcing any information out of him. In addition to that, you can try and build trust in that you can confide in him something honest about you, and with time, he will start connecting with you emotionally too.
Furthermore, you need to give him tasks that will prove his love. For instance, you can ask him for little favours to determine his willingness to please and help you. You can tell him something like “hey. I came back home and noticed that a vehicle has been standing across the streets for two hours now and I’m scared. What should I do?” His response will tell you the kind of person that he is and maybe, he will come over to keep you company so that you don’t have to be scared anymore. This is proof that he is willing to do anything for you.
Who Can Use This Program?
This program has been designed specifically for women to help them connect with men that they love, and to do away with the problem of being ghosted by men they are interested in. One of the worst situations that any woman can go through is to face rejection from a man that she is interested in. Men tend to lose interest if they do not feel the same, or if they feel the same but there is no spark in the conversation. However, with this guide, any woman will be able to make a man addicted to her, and give her all his attention and time. Also, if you are in a long-distance relationship with your man, you will be able to keep him waiting for you, and the fire in the relationship will keep burning.
Consequently, all of the above five love hormones play an important role in how a man perceives you, and to be able to make him want to spend more time with you, you need to know how to trigger these hormones in men, and how to respond to the feedback that they give. Make him feel like he can be vulnerable with you without worrying about anything and through this, you will earn his trust and become his number one confidant.
In conclusion, the “Irresistible Texts” program has been designed to give ladies an added advantage to keep men glued to their phones while waiting for their texts. It has some amazing tips and techniques for keeping a man interested in you and eventually wanting to spend the rest of his life with you. With this program, you no longer have to get worried about not getting the desired attention from your crush or man, rather you will feel in control. Therefore, this program is very effective, especially in making a man vulnerable, and to open and trust you with his feelings. He will be interested in you for the longest time and might end up having a future with you.